You’ve seen it in the movies. You’ve witnessed this type of man among your own group of friends. What is it with the ladies’ man that gets all the attention? What is it with this guy that seems to get all the ladies swooning? Well, he might be learning from Dating Coach Jason Capital, who is quickly becoming known as the most bad-ass dating and life coach in all 7 continents. Check him out in the video below:
Here are a few more secrets I’ve learned about women over the years…
Dress to impress. Let’s admit it. The dating game also has a visual factor. If a girl won’t give you a second look, your chances are cut off from the start. This tip doesn’t require you to be a fashion model; it suggests that you dress well. If you’re always wearing jerseys and always wearing a cap, she might not get the idea that you’re the serious guy. However, if she sees you as someone who can look dapper even with jeans and a button-down shirt, she might have a better impression of you. Get her attention by being someone who’s nice to look at. If you look good and feel good, she’ll get the message that you’re someone worth getting to know.
Walk the talk. Now that you have the look, learn how to approach a woman. Not all men are born smooth talkers but it’s a skill that can be acquired. The trick to becoming a smooth talker is simple: listen first, talk later. Keep your funny quips to yourself even if the woman is really interesting. Let her know that you are amazed by what she is saying and that she is worth hearing out. When you’ve established the communication, say your piece. Compliment her about her eyes or about what she does. Tell her that she is attractive.
Win her with your words. When she’s curious about you, drop some information about yourself. If she feels comfortable spending a few moments with you, things are going well.
Dating requires some effort. You shouldn’t just stand there and expect a woman to approach you. At least look like someone mysterious enough to be approached by a curious bystander. And while you’re at it, work on some words that will surely impress people. Don’t be afraid to tap into your charming side. Think of your assets and put them to good use. Let a woman know that you’re someone worth her time and that you’re someone worth knowing. At the end of it all, let her remember who you are.